Firstly, I think the most important part to remember is that she’s just a person outside of work, just like someone who works at Intel is just a functioning human of society. The cool thing about the job is that she can 100% leave it at work, assuming she doesn’t keep up with regulars.
Secondly, that is her income. Do not fuck with her income. Do not keep her from going to work. Do not encourage to pay for things for her to not have to work as much. You respect her job as an income to support herself because it is extremely beneficial to your relationship.
Encourage her. Every girl is going to have a bad night and she’s going to want you to be her biggest fan. She’s going to want a little ego boost from someone who matters. Understand that the job can be extremely taxing on the soul. Be there for her when she wants to vent about something stupid, but make sure she always acknowledges an accomplishment from doing her job. This is something I found to be the most helpful in a relationship.
Keep your insecurities out of her job. This is the best piece of advice you are going to hear. She is a stripper, she is going to do her job with or without you, and if you don’t want her sharing her nude body, DO NOT DATE A STRIPPER because when you let your soft wounded ego get in the way of her job, you are a scumbag and not benefitting anyone. She is getting paid to stroke wounded egos all night and it is extremely draining to have to come home to a winey man who needs needs his stroked too. Be confident with your relationship.
Trust her. This does not need any elaboration. TRUST. HER.
Lastly, do not compare yourself to customers. She will treat you special as a boyfriend/significant other in the way she knows how. She will be coming home to you. She will be spending her real and private life with you. Enjoy the time you spend with her because to most strippers, time outside of the club is usually taken very seriously; time is spent doing things that positively contribute to our real lives and feelings. Enjoy her.